Testimonials

Left Behind: Husband’s Legacy of Life of Service and Care - “Broken Trust, Broken Heart: Rebuilding with Wicare”

Three years ago, I lost my husband suddenly, and the pain seemed insurmountable. I wrestled with grief and mental anguish, feeling suffocated by the weight of “being strong”. The grief eventually became a medical emergency and I was admitted to hospital. In that dark time, I felt alone. But God’s grace led me to WiCare, and Paula’s kindness and patience helped me take my first steps. With WiCare’s counselling team, group therapy, and my befriender Julie, I began to rebuild confidence and navigate next steps – one at a time. Even after counselling, WiCare continued to support me, offering opportunities to volunteer
and connect with others. Helping others in pain unexpectedly helped me, and being part of a community that understood loss transformed my pain into hope. Today, I’m grateful to join WiCare’s vision to support women and families, taking one brave step at a time.

The Gift of Grief: Finding Solace in the City He Loved

Losing my husband felt like my world had shattered. My grief, anxiety, and fear consumed me, and I was lost in a sea of darkness. That’s when Wicare’s counseling services became my lifeline. The group grief therapy was a turning point – it was like being in a storm, but with others who understood the thunder in my heart.
And in the process, I found a part of myself I’d thought was lost forever – my creativity. I started painting, pouring my emotions onto canvas, and it was like a dam broke. I started painting London, his favourite city – our favourite place. Every brushstroke, every colour, brings me closer to him, and helps me
process this new reality. The tears flowed, but so did the love and memories. I’m no longer alone, thanks to the incredible women I met in therapy. We’ve become a tribe, holding each other up when the pain gets too much. Wicare’s support has been my beacon in the darkness, and I’m grateful for their care, compassion, and patience.

Fatherless at 19: From Caring for my Mom to Finding My OWN VOICE

The Wicare Children Support Program’s counseling sessions were a lifeline for me and my mum. Losing Dad was like losing a part of us, and I felt like I was drowning in grief and responsibility. I thought I had to be there for Mum all the time, putting her needs before me, to keep her from falling apart. But the sessions helped me see that I was losing myself in the process, I have my own life to live… Through tears and tough conversations, I realized that by focusing on my own healing and growth, and self-identity, I could actually help Mum find her way and become independent too…
My mom was in counselling, it was raw and painful, but we started to open up to each other, sharing our fears and hopes. Mum began to rediscover herself, and seeing her thrive gave me the courage to do the same. I started to find my own voice, my own passions, and it’s like I’m breathing again. Our relationship is different now – we’re more like sisters, supporting each other through the tough times. It’s not perfect, but it’s real, and it’s ours.

How a Rainbow “Children & Mommy” Program changed us

As the festive season loomed ahead, I felt a knot of anxiety in my stomach. How would we, as a family, navigate the celebrations without my husband by our side? But then, my children and I stumbled upon a “mommy-and-me”
event that would change everything. It was like a weight had been lifted off our shoulders the moment we walked into that room
filled with moms and kids. The activities and sharing hit close to home, and I felt a wave of relief wash over me, knowing we’re not alone in this journey. I’m grateful for the support and tools we gained to tackle the festive season ahead. It’s okay to feel a mix of emotions, and it’s okay to take things at our own pace. This experience has given me and my kids a renewed sense of strength and togetherness, and for that, I’m forever grateful.

Grief’s Uninvited Guest: How Wicare Helped Us Co-Host

When grief engulfed our family, I felt like I was drowning in a sea of uncertainty, struggling to keep my 2 young children’s heads above water. But Wicare’s counselling program was a lifeline, wrapping us in a warm, comforting embrace that made us feel less alone. Their seamless support allowed us to process our emotions at our own pace, without pressure or expectation, and
it was nothing short of miraculous. The team’s dedication to both the parent and the children is remarkable – they don’t just offer a service; they offer a community of care, a safe haven where we can be our authentic selves, raw and vulnerable. Thank you for being a beacon of hope in our darkest moments, and for making our family feel seen, heard, and loved.

Sidecar at Kampong Glam Aug26

The sidecar ride was awesome, fun and excellent. Very good and friendly riders.